The latest colonoscopy was all clear and they don't want to see me again for another five years!

Now - where's that tea and toast?! :-)

I'm now married! :-)

Man of The Year!

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It's now 2014 and I'm now living in Gateshead with my fiancee, the lovely Claire Murphy-Morgan - we're getting married in October!

I've also been trying to get fit again and lose some weight - 2 stone so far! And yesterday, my local Slimming World Group voted me Man of The Year, bless them!

All Clear!

Day 338 - Dopey!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

All clear for another three years! :-)

A Life More Than Half-full!

Day 336 - A Life More Than Half-full!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

I've have a routine colonoscopy on Monday. Not anything anyone looks forward to but given my medical history, something that, although I've been through it several times before, is a bit-nerve-wracking.

Tomorrow is the fireworks part ( don't worry, tomorrow's SP will be discreet!) but for today, a restticted diet. I know from previous experience what's best for me. The cake is today's treat - and the jelly babies are for tomorrow!

We can beat bowel cancer!

Hard Drive

Day 315 - Hard Drive, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

My 6 year old iMac died on me last week and has been deemed irrepairable by the Apple Store. In itself it's not a problem - it was all backed up anyway and as you can see, I've removed the drive so I can still access it. But it did still make me think - that computer has been a "witness" to so much of my life since 2006 when I was still very ill. I still remember the delivery...

I think I'm going to write some more about this.

LEJOG!

LEJOG, a set on Flickr.

Another post-cancer achievement. Cycling the 940 miles from Land's End to John O Groats with a fabulous group of people from Hummersknott Cycle Club :-)

I'm Off Again!

Day 54 - Every Brilliant Thing: Long Bike Rides!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

This time Land's End to John O 'Groats in July 2012! :-)

Another Birthday!

Day 48 - Every Brilliant Thing: My Birthday!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

And still fit and healthy! :-)

A Sign of Hope

Day 6 - A Sign of Hope, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

Happy New year! :-)

Day 342 - Year 6

Day 342 - Year 6, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

The sixth anniversary of my diagnosis. Thinking of those who weren't s lucky as me....

The Reports of My Demise....

No - this isn't me. It's a guy called Adrian Dewey who did the Vatternrundan with me over the summer. Adrian was the same age as me - and like me, was recovering from cancer. Unfortunately he had a recurrence of his Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma in August and he died last week. My sympathies to his family - Adrian and I chatted on the ride a couple of times as we were amongst the oldest and slowest in our group! He was a nice guy. Cancer sucks.

The other upsetting thing that happened was that one of the other guys on the ride mistook Adrian for me ( you can see the resemblance) and thought I'd died! He wrote the following:

"He was a lovely bloke and was so overjoyed with his achievement that he was taking pictures left right and centre. I think we can say that he brought something to our lives, but am equally certain that we accompanied him on one of the absolute highlights of his life, too. So I guess we get a pat on the back for that... "

When I first read this I was furious that someone could be so crass and stupid (he has since apologised) but I also felt invaded in a way. Someone I hardly knew had chosen to do this assessment of me and my life. How dare he?!

I've calmed down a bit now and can accept that it was a mistake. But it has made me think about how I would want to be remembered. Hopefully this won't be for a long while and for something more than this....

Breakfast Show!

Day 255 - Breakfast Show!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

Up early to do an interview on BBC Radio Tees about the latest Beating Bowel Cancer campaign. Thanks to reporter Katie Cole for agreeing to be in my SP :-)

Day 169 - Personal Best!

Day 169 - Personal Best!, a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

And - some five and a half years after my diagnosis, I rode The Vatternrundan! :-)

Newspaper Cutting!

Newspaper Cutting! , a photo by Menage a Moi on Flickr.

:-)

Discharged!

So - almost 5 years to the day from my diagnosis, I went to the hospital today and got my Discharge Letter! Of course there will still be 3-yearly colonoscopies but that's only what any person over 50 should have.

And yes - I feel suddenly lighter.

Too many people to thank individually for their help, love and support over the last 5 years but I must mention three:

Mr Bain - my amazing, bluff bright tender and talented surgeon.

Jo - my dear dear friend who has been with me through all of this.

and

My mum Jean who sadly didn't live to see today - but I know somewhere she's smiling..

xxx

A Life Less Ordinary

Day 342 - A Life Less Ordinary
Originally uploaded by Menage a Moi

On this day five years ago I was told I had bowel cancer. The following year was one of the most difficult of my life as I underwent surgery and chemo but it would have been impossible without the love and support of family and friends. And I know that not all of us who get the diagnosis make it.

Today I'm fit and healthy and looking forward - never back.

I had all sorts of ideas for the photo for today but in the end I just took a photo of a walk with Alfie near the Bike Centre in Swaledale where I spend so much of my time.

Because every day is somehow less ordinary...

Social Climber

Day 229 - Social Climber
Originally uploaded by Menage a Moi

Still doing well - keeping myself fit on the bike.

Just back from a week mountainbiking in the Pyrenees - this is me at the top of the Port de Bales hill climb - one of the ones they do in the Tour de France! :-)

Checking In

Day 185: Apres Moi le Deluge...
Originally uploaded by Menage a Moi

Still doing well - really into my mountain biking now. As you can see - the rain doesn't put me off!